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Title: What are you doing for Valentines Day??
Post by: kinjo on February 07, 2010, 11:25:00 AM: [heart][heart][heart][heart][heart][heart][heart][heart][heart][heart][heart][heart][heart][heart][heart][heart]

I am taking my girlfriend to Gatorland, and after going out to eat at her favorite resturant. Also bought her a gift!

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Title: Re: What are you doing for Valentines Day??
Post by: Adelaide on February 07, 2010, 06:15:53 PM: I still have a week to make plans...

Next weekend is busy though; Friday into Saturday I'm going to my friend, Kayla's house, and then Saturday into Sunday me and two other friends are going to the mall, then throwing a lil slumber party at my house... The rest of Sunday I have no plans yet. :3
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Post by: willow on February 07, 2010, 10:34:21 PM: visiting colleges...might drive up to MN even...yahooo~ (http://i747.photobucket.com/albums/xx113/monsterblab/Emoticons/First_Tard_by_Chinchillaah.gif)
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Post by: Flashwerewolf on February 08, 2010, 04:21:20 AM: Play some scary game alone in my room and feel extra lonely.
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Post by: kinjo on February 08, 2010, 10:28:17 AM: Make sure you have cake and ice cream!
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Post by: Wesker on February 08, 2010, 04:42:26 PM: I'll try to have enough balls in me to sully up to a freshman who I dig very much. Wish me luck!!
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Post by: kinjo on February 08, 2010, 05:00:47 PM: do it before valentines day, so you can celebrate valentines day together! more preparation for a sure thing
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Post by: Adelaide on February 08, 2010, 06:42:27 PM: =D DO EET! Good luck Whisker!
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Post by: tkoold on February 09, 2010, 03:56:42 AM: Hope Fully ill be working, currently im not scheduled to work but i dont want to Sit around the house sulking feeling like i should cry in bed while playing world of warcraft or watching the Daytona 500 on the day that with the exception of one year has tormented me since the day i wanted a girlfriend when i was 13, intrestingly enough outside of convincing the usefullness or me working to my boss (which does happen) theres someone that wants the day off that i could be able to switch hours with.. and when i do if it does happen i get to tell her the Irony of the situation and that she better get more then i ever gave her, (which she doesent get from him as if that has ever mattered to girls that want jerks) anywho.. i want to be at work as always i need the money as many reasons as why i should stay home and just try to enjoy the time rather then let her be with her other guy.. i know the 14th no matter what i do will not be an easy day for me and it only feels worse when my day was 100% unproductive and any pain suffered from seeing all the guys buy flowers or couples Grocery shopping will pail in comparason.. ill look forward to any crazy objectional posts to the ideas or sugjestions of what i do for valentines day.. play wow, watch the daytona 500, or let the girl me and kinjo shopped for her last valentines gift have time with her guy so that i do somthing usefull to build on in my life monetarily (which may not be an option anyways because if she has to cashier on her shift i cant switch with her anyways)

Wither way mew... Valentines day Sucks Unless i have a girlfriend [nyoro~n] [lchair]
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Post by: black death on February 09, 2010, 04:06:29 AM: Quote from: tkoold on February 09, 2010, 03:56:42 AM
Hope Fully ill be working, currently im not scheduled to work but i dont want to Sit around the house sulking feeling like i should cry in bed while playing world of warcraft or watching the Daytona 500 on the day that with the exception of one year has tormented me since the day i wanted a girlfriend when i was 13, intrestingly enough outside of convincing the usefullness or me working to my boss (which does happen) theres someone that wants the day off that i could be able to switch hours with.. and when i do if it does happen i get to tell her the Irony of the situation and that she better get more then i ever gave her, (which she doesent get from him as if that has ever mattered to girls that want jerks) anywho.. i want to be at work as always i need the money as many reasons as why i should stay home and just try to enjoy the time rather then let her be with her other guy.. i know the 14th no matter what i do will not be an easy day for me and it only feels worse when my day was 100% unproductive and any pain suffered from seeing all the guys buy flowers or couples Grocery shopping will pail in comparason.. ill look forward to any crazy objectional posts to the ideas or sugjestions of what i do for valentines day.. play wow, watch the daytona 500, or let the girl me and kinjo shopped for her last valentines gift have time with her guy so that i do somthing usefull to build on in my life monetarily (which may not be an option anyways because if she has to cashier on her shift i cant switch with her anyways)

Wither way mew... Valentines day Sucks Unless i have a girlfriend [nyoro~n] [lchair]

stop being emo tkoold.
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Post by: Adelaide on February 09, 2010, 04:08:18 AM: o.o honestly i didnt even understand that post except it was sorta emo, and something about a girl, and working.

Am I missing something here?
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Post by: tkoold on February 09, 2010, 04:33:39 AM: ok aparently i have to spell things out for the non intuitive minds that cant put 1 and 1 together to = 2

i dont want to be Home all Day Sulking in myself

but the best way to work at my job is working Crystals hours enableing her to be with her guy

Who is crystal you may ask?

she was the girl i was with for almost a year and 4 and a half months into our relationship valentines day came and i got her a nice 40$ silver necklace and a fine bottle of liqour we both enjoyed...

conventionaly ive moved on from the relationship even given any oporitunity to have it back i think im capable that i wouldnt have her in my life..

i know theres an intrestingly long road ahead of my to work back in my life mentally financialy and physically, BUT i will get there and my Dream is to get to Florida in about 2 years

As for being emo Kinjo will tell you by far im nothin of the sort but i will tell you if you honestly think i pass for one, i think that EMO Girls are HOTT [companion]
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Post by: Flashwerewolf on February 09, 2010, 05:01:05 AM: tahnks tkoold! [cmon2]
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Post by: Adelaide on February 09, 2010, 04:32:53 PM: Quote from: tkoold on February 09, 2010, 04:33:39 AM
ok aparently i have to spell things out for the non intuitive minds that cant put 1 and 1 together to = 2

Oh I'm sorry I don't know your life enough to make assumptions. [bun;]

Quote from: tkoold on February 09, 2010, 04:33:39 AM
Who is crystal you may ask?

You made enough topics about her for us to know who she is, but a reference to a name instead of "a girl" would have helped, since I'm sure Minnesota has more than one girl.

Quote from: tkoold on February 09, 2010, 04:33:39 AM
conventionaly ive moved on from the relationship even given any oporitunity to have it back i think im capable that i wouldnt have her in my life..

You are obviously not over her if the thought of spending another Valentine's Day with her has come across your mind.

Now if you don't mind, can we keep this topic from being another topic about Tkoold?

((No disrespect TK, I went to bed late and woke up early and am I lil cranky..))
Title: Re: What are you doing for Valentines Day??
Post by: black death on February 09, 2010, 04:42:00 PM: Il be doing what I do every day. TRY TO TAKE OVER THE WORLD.
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Post by: Shashuneko on February 09, 2010, 04:45:37 PM: I haven't planned anything cause I might have to work, but if I get the day off, I'm gonna bake my man a nice portal cake that is not a lie and present to him a box of Hersey Kisses, his favorite.
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Post by: Flashwerewolf on February 09, 2010, 05:14:46 PM: PLANS! Going up to my moms and to BLACKHAWK CASINO Friday and Sat, then coming back here Sunday to be alone and play scary games in the dark as I feel more alone.
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Post by: wurm breeder on February 09, 2010, 07:37:26 PM: Nothing!
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Post by: Wesker on February 09, 2010, 08:45:46 PM: I don't know what to do now, exaclty, as I got my other freshman buddy to ask her if she thought I was cute, to which she replied "not really"

But that doesn't mean I'm stopping!
Title: Re: What are you doing for Valentines Day??
Post by: kinjo on February 09, 2010, 08:50:41 PM: never use friends to help, women want a guy to do it themselves!
dont take the [chik] way out
just do it!!!
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Post by: enjoyhappy on February 09, 2010, 09:41:36 PM: idk what I'm gonna do on that day, hopefully this stupid runny nose will go away and I can finally try and find me a girl ;D *bugger runs down my face* don't I look preeety?
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Post by: Red on February 09, 2010, 10:17:58 PM: I'm probably going to be eating Burger King. [burgerk]
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Post by: tkoold on February 10, 2010, 12:23:35 AM: Quote from: Wesker on February 09, 2010, 08:45:46 PM
I don't know what to do now, exaclty, as I got my other freshman buddy to ask her if she thought I was cute, to which she replied "not really"

But that doesn't mean I'm stopping!

Sorry Girls dont want pussy, they want the man in controll and confident What you do by having your friend do what you should be doing is proving your friend or Anyone Else she may find is Better at Both Believe me its why you have a flower power and she has a pussy Unless shes lesbo she dont want pussy...
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Post by: ShinamoriAoshi on February 10, 2010, 01:38:03 AM: Project Eagle will take place on Valentines Day.

Might visit my friend who works at Yamatos on Friday.

Going to a birthday party that was bumped back a week due to rain, if the host says she's having it.

FOUR AND A HALF DAY WEEKEND.

F*CK YEAR.
Title: Re: What are you doing for Valentines Day??
Post by: Wesker on February 10, 2010, 08:49:19 AM: Quote from: tkoold on February 10, 2010, 12:23:35 AM
Sorry Girls dont want pussy, they want the man in controll and confident What you do by having your friend do what you should be doing is proving your friend or Anyone Else she may find is Better at Both Believe me its why you have a flower power and she has a pussy Unless shes lesbo she dont want pussy...
Okay, a little extreme there, but thanks anyway.
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Post by: tkoold on February 10, 2010, 01:38:35 PM: well i had a friend at work explain it to me in the same way untill i got it right in the head with no second guessing, and after a year and a half all i can say is hes absolutly right..
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Post by: Adelaide on February 10, 2010, 03:26:50 PM: Quote from: tkoold on February 10, 2010, 12:23:35 AM
Quote from: Wesker on February 09, 2010, 08:45:46 PM
I don't know what to do now, exaclty, as I got my other freshman buddy to ask her if she thought I was cute, to which she replied "not really"

But that doesn't mean I'm stopping!

Sorry Girls dont want pussy, they want the man in controll and confident What you do by having your friend do what you should be doing is proving your friend or Anyone Else she may find is Better at Both Believe me its why you have a flower power and she has a pussy Unless shes lesbo she dont want pussy...

o.o stop giving advice about what girls want. You don't know, so don't try.

Quote from: Wesker on February 10, 2010, 08:49:19 AM
Quote from: tkoold on February 10, 2010, 12:23:35 AM
Sorry Girls dont want pussy, they want the man in controll and confident What you do by having your friend do what you should be doing is proving your friend or Anyone Else she may find is Better at Both Believe me its why you have a flower power and she has a pussy Unless shes lesbo she dont want pussy...
Okay, a little extreme there, but thanks anyway.

My advice to you is to ask her yourself. What happened by having a friend do it is she feels shy, and will lie about what she truly thinks, because she feels if she is honest she will become the victim to criticism. Telling feelings to a third party is awkward and feels way too much like middle school all over again.

Don't exactly say "Do you think I'm cute?" because that is basing things off physical attributes. Ask "What do you think of me?" or "Do you like me?" or tell her what you think of her. If she knows you like her and think she is cute, it will make her feel better about being more open with you.

Another thing about getting a friend to do it is that a lot of girls get that constantly and it makes them not trust the friend, because they get a lot of guys just trying to screw with their friend and the girl feels like she is the victim of the same prank and its upsetting.
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Post by: Flashwerewolf on February 10, 2010, 07:06:56 PM: Quote from: tkoold on February 10, 2010, 01:38:35 PM
well i had a friend at work explain it to me in the same way untill i got it right in the head with no second guessing, and after a year and a half all i can say is hes absolutly right..
and obviously you're doin' it wrong, so wouldn't that make you second guess the 'explanation' of the friend?
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Post by: Adelaide on February 10, 2010, 08:58:23 PM: He makes a good point.
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Post by: tkoold on February 11, 2010, 06:26:25 AM: lols i was doing it wrong 2 years ago and kinjo can confirm that the friend explained what to fix in my attempts which were different but similar to weskers, the friend told me over and over in much the same manner as my previous post Dozens of times, Kinjo can confirm because All the posts were visable by him in my face book Believe me generally its true, its not my Normal instinctive carecter to myself but once i got used to and gain confidence in the change of attitude, i got crystal.. and its the longest relationship ive had in my life..
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Post by: Angrychair on February 11, 2010, 12:03:40 PM: i dont like the holiday at all personally. why do you need a day to express your love for someone? shouldnt you be able to do that any day during the year? like if your planning on doing something for someone on valentines day they'll know its coming because its valentines day. i think it would be more romantic if you did something out of the blue for them, like send them flowers or something on a random wednesday. idk i just think i dont need a day to show you my love, id show it to you everyday [companion] well not everyday cuz that would get overwhelming but you know what i mean [cmon2]
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Post by: wurm breeder on February 11, 2010, 08:01:16 PM: Angrychair gets 12 poignancy points. (Also, can I be given the authority to fabricate/distribute poignancy points?)
Title: Re: What are you doing for Valentines Day??
Post by: Adelaide on February 12, 2010, 12:33:43 AM: Quote from: Angrychair on February 11, 2010, 12:03:40 PM
i dont like the holiday at all personally. why do you need a day to express your love for someone? shouldnt you be able to do that any day during the year? like if your planning on doing something for someone on valentines day they'll know its coming because its valentines day. i think it would be more romantic if you did something out of the blue for them, like send them flowers or something on a random wednesday. idk i just think i dont need a day to show you my love, id show it to you everyday [companion] well not everyday cuz that would get overwhelming but you know what i mean [cmon2]

Its different.

Think about being a young kid on Christmas, and the magic you felt and how amazing the atmosphere is. Just the holiday changes the mood and feel of things so much.

Valentines day is one of those holidays that never gets ruined, but the magic is still there. Its a different magic, but its there... And its a certain magic that is amazing to share with that special someone in your life.

^.^ Its always sweet and super amazing to do something randomly for that special someone, but its not the same. Its nice and always super sweet and all, but its different from celebrating on those few special days in the year where that magic comes alive. Like Christmas, and New Years, and Valentines day... =] Its just special is all!
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Post by: tkoold on February 12, 2010, 12:42:19 AM: well pending manager approval ive found someone else who wants the day off and should be able to work sunday 2pm -10pm it will be good Money!
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Post by: Flashwerewolf on February 12, 2010, 03:00:55 AM: Quote from: Angrychair on February 11, 2010, 12:03:40 PM
i dont like the holiday at all personally. why do you need a day to express your love for someone? shouldnt you be able to do that any day during the year? like if your planning on doing something for someone on valentines day they'll know its coming because its valentines day. i think it would be more romantic if you did something out of the blue for them, like send them flowers or something on a random wednesday. idk i just think i dont need a day to show you my love, id show it to you everyday [companion] well not everyday cuz that would get overwhelming but you know what i mean [cmon2]
Thats how I feel about most "_____'s Days." With Valentine's Day you love birds out there get to plan a day that can be really out of the ordinary of the usual nice things you do for your loved ones.
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Post by: Red on February 12, 2010, 07:28:29 AM: I feel like I'm going to end up forgetting all about it. >.>
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Post by: Flashwerewolf on February 12, 2010, 08:19:35 AM: forgetting the holiday or our discussion? [nyoro~n]
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Post by: Adelaide on February 12, 2010, 09:06:38 AM: I think the holiday... o.o Dont drink too many bears Sunday, Red!
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Post by: kinjo on February 12, 2010, 10:51:32 AM: 2 more days [companion]
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Post by: Adelaide on February 12, 2010, 12:13:11 PM: =D Yays! ^.^ Luff day!
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Post by: Flashwerewolf on February 12, 2010, 12:34:53 PM: I am without my beloved internet until Luff day
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Post by: Adelaide on February 12, 2010, 12:38:46 PM: Awwww D= I have weekend plans so I'll be away most the weekend till luff day too
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Post by: Red on February 13, 2010, 08:36:02 PM: Quote from: Adelaide on February 12, 2010, 09:06:38 AM
I think the holiday... o.o Dont drink too many bears Sunday, Red!

Mmm... Black bear...
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Post by: Adelaide on February 13, 2010, 10:02:58 PM: Not Grizzly?
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Post by: kinjo on February 14, 2010, 09:56:27 AM: HAPPY VALENTINES DAYYYYY!
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Post by: wurm breeder on February 14, 2010, 10:03:32 AM: May all your travels bring peace, love, unity, and remembering the last thing.
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Post by: Flashwerewolf on February 14, 2010, 10:20:46 AM: [kungfu]
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Post by: Adelaide on February 14, 2010, 01:14:28 PM: Quote from: wurm breeder on February 14, 2010, 10:03:32 AM
May all your travels bring peace, love, unity, and remembering the last thing.
PLUR!

(psst, respect)

Quote from: Flashwerewolf on February 14, 2010, 10:20:46 AM
[kungfu]

HEY YOU! WHAT IS THAT?! IS THAT A RANDOM SMILEY POST?! >=[
Title: Re: What are you doing for Valentines Day??
Post by: kinjo on February 14, 2010, 04:07:19 PM: had a nice lunch with my woman, got her some gifts
it was a nice vday!
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Post by: Adelaide on February 14, 2010, 06:48:31 PM: And its not over!
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Post by: kinjo on February 14, 2010, 07:29:48 PM: no its not
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Post by: Adelaide on February 14, 2010, 10:45:48 PM: :3 nope
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Post by: tkoold on February 16, 2010, 05:38:49 AM: So like the only day more painfull then valentines day itself may have been the day after, alas While i have to bring in carts for the gorcery store, i have the pleasure of watching Tims White Truck arive with Crystal to drop her off and of course before she goes to work they kiss eachother on the lips Arg that pisses me off, though i have to admit, Anger actually drives me to motivate myself for my goals.. Its when i loose anger i get complacent, but i did get the last laugh on wishing ill will, i have this feeling if shes not carefull she may get fired from rainbow.. due to some of her childish ways, and then even her minor health issues, shes used all of her sick days for awile and if she calls in for work one more time she will be suspended, moreover, while being forced to showup for work today she left only an hour and a half after ariving, Which is Incredibly early, sooner or later its likly somthin will catchup with her, and i dont normally wish ill will on people but it would be nice to have a last laugh .

Ohh Btw if there is anything i do get to laugh about, Tim had to pick her up, and she dont live close to cottage grove at all anymore, What an incredible waste of gas LOLS!
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Post by: Flashwerewolf on February 16, 2010, 05:46:23 AM: someone seems not over her [nyoro~n] AND DONT DIS WHITE TRUCKS, BUCKO!! [kungfu]
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Post by: tkoold on February 16, 2010, 06:09:18 AM: Yeah im probably not going to be completly over it untill i trim down to a size 28/30 reach some goals work hard at life obtain a new GF and move down to florida.. untill some of those things happen i dont think i can feel great about it, i guess i have jelousy issues..

maybe youll talk about it to help me with them..
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Post by: Flashwerewolf on February 16, 2010, 07:06:14 AM: Nope! [rocket]
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Post by: tkoold on February 16, 2010, 07:12:41 AM: Lols that So NOT COOL FW, help friends in need [nyoro~n] [lchair]
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Post by: Flashwerewolf on February 16, 2010, 09:31:04 AM: In all seriousness Tkoold I've known you for the past 5 years and have given you all the advice I could. I know now that my advice will do you no good and thus I have none for you now.
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Post by: tkoold on February 16, 2010, 01:49:16 PM: Ohh you think you know everything then? well your wrong a person can change alot in five years but whatever be a dumb jerk if you want
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Post by: kinjo on February 16, 2010, 03:30:54 PM: fw is right
we all have given you advice to help you through your issues, and they are repetitive, and usually the same advice over and over
but your memory is that of a stoners, and you dont even smoke!
that or it goes in 1 ear out the other with you [tkoold]
so whatever we said before, use that for todays issues because they are the same exact advice
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Post by: Adelaide on February 16, 2010, 09:58:17 PM: o.o I concur.
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Post by: Red on February 16, 2010, 10:01:24 PM: Mmm. I just bit my tongue.
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Post by: Adelaide on February 16, 2010, 10:02:17 PM: =D got all my things ready for a WONDERFUL DAY OF SCHOOL TOMORROW