Discussion Zone: => General Chat => Topic started by: Wesker on June 05, 2011, 10:30:44 PM
Title: Effin' women, man...
Post by: Wesker on June 05, 2011, 10:30:44 PM
Having a very up-and-down week. Just when I think my friendship with this girl I've known for years seems to get on the rocks, it gets right back on track, considering I overthink this shit way to much. We hung out later tonight and watched old Nickelodeon cartoons. Great times.
Earlier today at work, my best friend Joe tells me that my lying wonderful person of an ex-girlfriend drunk-texted him last night and tried to hook up with him. He said he wouldn't betray my trust because I'm his best friend and she said "what Andy doesn't know won't hurt him" and rambles on about how she's gonna make out with a bunch of guys at dumb [cen] ing XTU radio station concert. Chick's headed for a brick wall if you ask me.
Women confuse me.
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Post by: tkoold on June 06, 2011, 02:36:37 AM
Yeah it sucks.. Women are like guys that dont have to work for it... Like kinjo sais they can be horny too.. And Being that women are Chased instead of being the Chasers, they can be picky and not usualy have to worry of the consequences cuz there is usualy another guy, but if we did the same thing with women the Stakes are alot more to gamble theres not always another girl..
none of this is fun.. but what it really comes down to is the people you have around in your life dont hold any values to personality or really building their lives for the future and or having a meaningful family, and they will have their own pitfalls of payback for their choices...
other than that dont ask me.. ive been dateless for about 3 years again.. what do i know of relationships...
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Post by: kinjo on June 06, 2011, 08:50:57 AM
Ever hear that saying,"their are many fish in the sea". Always another girl, just can't know if she is the right one for you.
Wesker, don't worry about anything she does or what she does it to herself. When she gets older she will have many regrets and you will have very few. You will end up the better person here. .
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Post by: Flashwerewolf on June 06, 2011, 06:32:06 PM
you kids and your wild tales
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Post by: kinjo on June 06, 2011, 07:33:35 PM
fw, the man of mystery
he's a werewolf, killer by night
Title: Re: Effin' women, man...
Post by: Wesker on June 07, 2011, 08:29:33 AM
Oh believe me, I'm a better person at this point--she's a lousy vodka hound.
And I can agree with the statement that there's always more fish in the sea, but often times you're stuck in the desert.
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Post by: kinjo on June 07, 2011, 04:43:55 PM
Even in the desert you can find water.
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Post by: Wesker on June 07, 2011, 08:50:31 PM
Very, very true. Or you can whip out a GPS and find the nearest Sunoco.
Title: Re: Effin' women, man...
Post by: tkoold on June 07, 2011, 11:15:04 PM
id rather find a Pump and Munch LOL!!!
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Post by: kinjo on June 08, 2011, 03:25:17 PM
i'd rather find a $100 bill
Title: Re: Effin' women, man...
Post by: Flashwerewolf on June 08, 2011, 08:12:32 PM
There arent fish in deserts? [???]
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Post by: kinjo on June 08, 2011, 11:31:32 PM
in mirages
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Post by: tkoold on June 09, 2011, 12:31:22 AM
FW see if you can find a fish in Death Valley Nevada ok? when you do, let us know.
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Post by: Nocturnous on June 09, 2011, 02:50:13 AM
One of my ex-girlfriends made out with my sister. I'm definitely glad to be married and out of that three ring circus. I have great advice on your comment about "over-thinking": Don't think! You'll be miserable if you are constantly policing your actions and trying to manipulate someone into liking you. You have to be yourself, and sometimes that calls for being an asshole. Girls don't trust or fall for guys who can't treat them like people.
Oh, and girls will chase after guys; I've been stalked before. This video will teach you the secret of becoming a sexual tyrannosaurus.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7PbRZ5QMAs0
Title: Re: Effin' women, man...
Post by: Wesker on June 09, 2011, 07:47:17 AM
Pleasure to meet you, Nocturnous! Thanks for the advice, it really is much easier if I avoid flirting. Things are going reasonably well at this point.
However, last night I had this nightmare where I was watching a movie with a couple friends plus the girl, and she cuddles up with my one friend. Then for some reason they removed both their shirts and just laid there watching it. Flashforward to a dinner with her and another two friends. My one death metal-loving friend decided to walk her to her car before I even noticed. I followed to spy on them, but I heard a noise and ran back to the table. A minute later, he returns and exclaims "well I can stop pleasuring myself, I've found a lady!" I asked if he made a move and he said yes, so I delightfully said "Great! [cen] you. I've been working on her for a week! Go [cen] yourself. Have a nice day asshole," all in a friendly manner. He leaves and the restaurant manager approaches me, hands me a bottle of Sunkist and shakes my hand, explaining that he went through the very same situation before.
I woke up at 6:30am and shot right up. This nightmare still bothers me.
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Post by: tkoold on June 10, 2011, 01:44:22 AM
if a girl leaves for some other guy its better for that then because shes mad at your over some stupid argument either way it comes down to your not who she wants, it hurts no matter how it happends, its just easier to transmit your anger if you see it for another guy..
Title: Re: Effin' women, man...
Post by: kinjo on June 10, 2011, 10:55:37 AM
if a girl leaves for some other guy its better for that then because shes mad at your over some stupid argument either way it comes down to your not who she wants, it hurts no matter how it happends, its just easier to transmit your anger if you see it for another guy..
...the hell are you talking about? That doesn't make anything remotely better! If YOU break it off, it works out better. If you find out there's another asshat she digs, then it's not even close to more comforting than her telling you where you screwed up. It's the same plane!
Title: Re: Effin' women, man...
Post by: kinjo on June 11, 2011, 01:39:39 PM
Title: Re: Effin' women, man...
Post by: Nocturnous on June 12, 2011, 03:25:11 PM
Break-ups only negatively affect the loser. This isn't determined by who does the breaking, but by who doesn't successfully move on or stop caring. I think being left for another guy is the hardest scenario, because it's always some douche-bag who's a condensed and canned version of everything wrong with the world.
There is just no shortcut to becoming laid-back or being able to deal with that easier. It takes a lot of dating experience and a ton of break-ups before you realize that there is just no reason to force a relationship, especially when the other person doesn't want it. Really: If you wouldn't lock someone in a dungeon in real life—then you shouldn't ever do it in your mind.
Title: Re: Effin' women, man...
Post by: kinjo on June 12, 2011, 09:27:46 PM
Just play more video games! [gamer]
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Post by: tkoold on June 13, 2011, 12:12:29 AM
yeah 2 years and i still wish crystal cared... But she found someone like me who is taller anbd maybe a little more carithsma but not much.. anyways.. Yeah ive moved on but i havent.. and it is because its been Over 2 Fricken years and no Dates and no one new in my life.. im alone and it sux.
Title: Re: Effin' women, man...
Post by: Wesker on June 13, 2011, 12:19:42 AM
Go. To. A. Supermarket. It's the ultimate place to pick up women. Just remember, confidence is KEY!!
Title: Re: Effin' women, man...
Post by: tkoold on June 13, 2011, 10:44:40 PM
i work at a Super Market LOL! and i have days where i work with confidence, but you hate to blow it on the job cuz they could complain like DUDE this jerk worker is hitting on me !!
Title: Re: Effin' women, man...
Post by: kinjo on June 13, 2011, 10:46:18 PM
and then he gets fired....
THEN go to a competitors grocery store and hit on women (Cub, Byerlys, Aldi, etc)
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Post by: tkoold on June 13, 2011, 10:50:10 PM
lol aldi.. like i want to hit on crazy middle eastern women
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Post by: Nocturnous on June 13, 2011, 11:08:48 PM
This girl is on E-Harmony.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mTTwcCVajAc
Title: Re: Effin' women, man...
Post by: tkoold on June 14, 2011, 02:14:23 AM
LOL that girl is Cat Crazy!! its kinda cute :furrysmiley047ub:
anyways when i joined a dating site, dispite the fact Kinjo told me you would help me, i never recieved any help and you just wanted to ignore me.) so yeah whatever.... [boohoo]
here is the profile that never got any replys.. and that needs a update
Title: Re: Effin' women, man...
Post by: Nocturnous on June 14, 2011, 04:41:06 AM
Man, I just don't know what to say to that. From a basic human/social perspective it really lacks personality. Outside of the weird grammar issues and formatting of your bio, you've made one huge critical mistake: Girls like older men! Just ask some of the circa high-school age kids here—I bet they know quite a few hot chicks who are dating guys way older than them.
Also, emphasizing being normal is usually a red flag that you aren't, but in a bad way. Seriously, F being normal. Normal is boring, normal is the mild sauce of life, normal is a slice of white Wonderbread with a side of warm tap water. It's about as exciting as going to a Celine Dion concert, then topping the night off with a riveting game of charades with the in-laws and a glass of table wine.
The most you have to say about yourself are the things you own, other peoples' works and how much you like "playing." This is where you have to obey the "show not tell" rule in writing. A bio is a chance to showcase your personality! If it doesn't go beyond watching anime or playing Xbox then you have to discover who you really are and what's stopping that guy from coming out.
It's ok to like geek things; I am a geek. I'm wearing a shirt that says "Dragons [the other white meat]." Geek is the new trendy thing to be. In fact, it has never been easier for us to be popular. Anyone can watch CBS's The Big Bang Theory and figure that out.
I'm not in favor for teaching guys how to manipulate their way into the sack. I used to be like that, and it's just a path of shallow meaningless guilt free sex with beautiful women (ok, ignore that last part), maybe listen to Katy Perry's song "Firework." I don't really know, but I do know that if you aren't happy in life you need to make dramatic changes.
Title: Re: Effin' women, man...
Post by: Flashwerewolf on June 14, 2011, 06:57:09 AM
If people suck, then you suck, so don't worry about sucky dating experiences! Rather be alone that with someone who is ok with how much you suck?
Title: Re: Effin' women, man...
Post by: Wesker on June 14, 2011, 10:12:12 AM
Dating sites are for people who don't know how to compete in normal society--and you, sir, tkoold, compete in normal society, you just lack the self esteem. If you want to meet geeky dames, don't put yourself on a dating site where divorcees over 40 are looking for someone to tell them that they aren't overweight. Go to comic shops, music houses and various shows. Go to comic conventions, there's plenty to meet there! They're even at the market, you just have to bite your lip, throw on a blanket of confidence, be yourself, and advance!
Title: Re: Effin' women, man...
Post by: tkoold on June 15, 2011, 01:57:53 PM
wow By compete in normal society its more like im the guy that facilitates the futures of other men, i finish last or 2nd to last so that the women can find the Winners LOl but yeah i feel ya wesker i just donno whats gonna pull out my inner beauty to do what should be done.
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Post by: kinjo on June 16, 2011, 08:32:19 AM
you don't need beauty tkoold unless your going to win a pageant
what you need is brawn!
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Post by: tkoold on June 17, 2011, 12:31:05 AM
James Brawn
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Post by: kinjo on June 17, 2011, 05:16:47 PM
http://www.jamesbrawn.com/
here he is!
Title: Re: Effin' women, man...
Post by: Wesker on June 17, 2011, 09:34:58 PM
All you need is confidence and casual attitude. Pickup lines are HUGE turnoffs and pretending you aren't yourself just doesn't work. Laidback--most key word you can ask for.
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Post by: kinjo on June 18, 2011, 07:31:23 AM
i never did pick up lines
just start talking naturally, not put on a show
wesker knows
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Post by: Wesker on June 18, 2011, 08:54:27 PM
Trial and error, folks
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Post by: kinjo on June 19, 2011, 07:58:40 AM
drugs and dealing, ninjas
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Post by: tkoold on June 19, 2011, 12:16:54 PM
WTF that james Brawn thing what a dork weed.
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Post by: kinjo on June 19, 2011, 06:24:06 PM
lol you clicked it [horseplay]
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Post by: tkoold on June 19, 2011, 11:53:13 PM
it just shocked and amazed me that one of my jokes Exists as a real person, i wonder if people Joked with him all the time, like My names Brawn James Brawn
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Post by: kinjo on June 20, 2011, 07:55:51 AM
he's going to find you for calling him a dork weed!
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Post by: tkoold on June 21, 2011, 12:00:04 AM
lol i could use a british guy mad at me id be like care for a spot of tea?
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Post by: kinjo on June 21, 2011, 07:33:52 PM
Then he would go 007 on you!
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Post by: tkoold on June 22, 2011, 02:25:47 AM
if it ended days like yesterday where i needed 2 long island teas to relax from being desperate and alone and txting crystal in a conversation that she told me to talk to God as if that would help my life and then yeah whatever today sucked lol.
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Post by: kinjo on June 25, 2011, 07:14:09 AM
wow she went religious on you, that's what you get for contacting her
move on! [ele]
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Post by: tkoold on June 25, 2011, 07:34:49 PM
Yep ill move on from my life who needs it * dies in bed.
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Post by: kinjo on June 25, 2011, 10:18:29 PM
atleast it's a sleep number
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Post by: tkoold on June 27, 2011, 01:19:29 AM
my sleep # is 69 but everyone knew that..
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Post by: kinjo on June 27, 2011, 07:59:23 AM
i sleep on a really stiff bed, anything else is bad for my back
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Post by: tkoold on June 27, 2011, 11:43:56 AM