Discussion Zone: => General Chat => Topic started by: Wesker on December 30, 2008, 03:53:42 AM
Title: Dear 4M-er's...
Post by: Wesker on December 30, 2008, 03:53:42 AM
I'm in a tight wicket lately. Starting 4 weeks ago, I've become really attracted to my neighbor, and I feel that some chance is sitting there to happen, but I want to take this with all seriousness so I don't [cen] it up. I'm inviting ehr over for New Year's Eve and was thinking of asking her if she wants to go see a movie when she leaves. How do you guys see this situation and how I should handle it?
Title: Re: Dear 4M-er's...
Post by: Red on December 30, 2008, 03:56:50 AM
First of all, how much have you been talking to? You know her well?
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Also, you should think about what you should do if she isn't able to go to the movie with you. You shouldn't beat yourself up about it. You need to be prepared for everything.
Title: Re: Dear 4M-er's...
Post by: kinjo on December 30, 2008, 09:15:27 AM
dont wait until she leaves, ask in the middle
Title: Re: Dear 4M-er's...
Post by: Whalesdude on December 30, 2008, 11:41:14 AM
Yeah, the main thing with girls is BE REAL. Don't do anything you wouldn't normally do, don't act strange or try to be "Mr. Cool." Just be yourself. The thing girls appreciate more than how "Manly" or "Cool" you are is your feelings towards them. Don't let anything stupid like pride get in the way. If you don't want to spill it right there, just be calm (And yes, I know how hard it is.) and ask her to that movie.
Also, take Kinjo's advice, BUT -- Remind her before she leaves. Make it friendly, like "I had a great time tonight. Go home safe, and I'll see you at X Movie on X Day?" Something like that.
Title: Re: Dear 4M-er's...
Post by: Wesker on December 30, 2008, 12:51:00 PM
Thank you for the insight, fellas. I just needed to know how you saw the situation and your opinion on the handling. Thanks again. Hopefully the boat will sail smooth.
~wesker
Title: Re: Dear 4M-er's...
Post by: black death on December 30, 2008, 05:29:48 PM
LOOK AT HER EYES, THEN HIT HER OVER THE HEAD WITH SOME CLUB LIKE TOOL. THEN DRAG HER TO YOUR CAVE. well thats how i get the chick i like.
Title: Re: Dear 4M-er's...
Post by: kinjo on December 30, 2008, 07:08:30 PM
has that been effective?
Title: Re: Dear 4M-er's...
Post by: Red on December 30, 2008, 07:29:31 PM
Yeah, the main thing with girls is BE REAL. Don't do anything you wouldn't normally do, don't act strange or try to be "Mr. Cool." Just be yourself. The thing girls appreciate more than how "Manly" or "Cool" you are is your feelings towards them. Don't let anything stupid like pride get in the way. If you don't want to spill it right there, just be calm (And yes, I know how hard it is.) and ask her to that movie.
Also, take Kinjo's advice, BUT -- Remind her before she leaves. Make it friendly, like "I had a great time tonight. Go home safe, and I'll see you at X Movie on X Day?" Something like that.
What if you ARE "Mr. Cool?" X-D
Title: Re: Dear 4M-er's...
Post by: black death on December 30, 2008, 08:00:06 PM
Yeah, the main thing with girls is BE REAL. Don't do anything you wouldn't normally do, don't act strange or try to be "Mr. Cool." Just be yourself. The thing girls appreciate more than how "Manly" or "Cool" you are is your feelings towards them. Don't let anything stupid like pride get in the way. If you don't want to spill it right there, just be calm (And yes, I know how hard it is.) and ask her to that movie.
Also, take Kinjo's advice, BUT -- Remind her before she leaves. Make it friendly, like "I had a great time tonight. Go home safe, and I'll see you at X Movie on X Day?" Something like that.
What if you ARE "Mr. Cool?" X-D
Then don't try to be yourself. You should already be yourself. C:
Wahahaha!
Title: Re: Dear 4M-er's...
Post by: Flashwerewolf on December 30, 2008, 09:44:27 PM
Advice: Don't take advice from the internet.
Title: Re: Dear 4M-er's...
Post by: kinjo on December 30, 2008, 09:50:43 PM
Advice: Learn from what you learn on the internet. [fw]
Title: Re: Dear 4M-er's...
Post by: ShinamoriAoshi on December 30, 2008, 11:25:13 PM
Advice: Be more like Joe Camel.
Title: Re: Dear 4M-er's...
Post by: Wesker on December 31, 2008, 01:50:16 AM
Well unfortunately she has plans for new years, so im going to work on it another time. dang.
Title: Re: Dear 4M-er's...
Post by: black death on December 31, 2008, 09:23:22 PM
advice: BD KNOWS ALL, TRUST HIM.
Title: Re: Dear 4M-er's...
Post by: Wesker on December 31, 2008, 09:38:52 PM
sure thing BD
Title: Re: Dear 4M-er's...
Post by: Whalesdude on December 31, 2008, 09:47:17 PM
Title: Re: Dear 4M-er's...
Post by: Whalesdude on January 03, 2009, 03:05:39 PM
DON'T TALK SHIT ABOUT TOTAL.
Title: Re: Dear 4M-er's...
Post by: Wesker on January 03, 2009, 03:08:47 PM
Calm down! Calm down! Don't get a big D1CK!!
Title: Re: Dear 4M-er's...
Post by: Whalesdude on January 03, 2009, 03:36:55 PM
WHERE'S THE PAPER TOWELS? THROW THEM OVER HERE! ... OUCH! MOTHER [cen] ER YOU HIT ME IN THE D1CK. YOU'RE LUCKY IT WASN'T HARD!
... I MEAN THIS THING, NOT MY D1CK.
Title: Re: Dear 4M-er's...
Post by: Wesker on January 03, 2009, 03:55:58 PM
We'll put back the beer....put back the towels...put back the marshmellows.NO!!!
Title: Re: Dear 4M-er's...
Post by: Tomp45 on January 04, 2009, 01:13:38 AM
The doctor doesn't need to know about that.... (Talking to his ex-wife shirlena on the phone.) DONT YOU EVER, TALK ABOUT MY D!CK, WITHOUT MY PERMISSION!!!
Title: Re: Dear 4M-er's...
Post by: black death on January 04, 2009, 03:42:29 PM
oh where did this topic go oh so wrong.
Title: Re: Dear 4M-er's...
Post by: Flashwerewolf on January 04, 2009, 07:56:23 PM
when someone started watching Turrets Dad while posting.
Title: Re: Dear 4M-er's...
Post by: Wesker on January 06, 2009, 06:51:37 PM
*KNOCK* *KNOCK* *KNOCK*
Waitaminit you d1ck! I don't have a d1ck, you prick! Shirlena? Aw, sh1t!
Title: Re: Dear 4M-er's...
Post by: Flashwerewolf on January 06, 2009, 10:36:27 PM