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Title: How to earn freedom...
Post by: pilot on May 16, 2009, 04:36:33 PM
Yo, i need help, my parents watch me like a dog, i cant hang out with my girlfriend, i cant just go out, they always have to know where im going, and i cant come back when i want...

HELP ME!!!!      [athf] [athf] [athf] [athf] [usuck] [psyduck] [psyduck] [ksuck] [ksuck]
Title: Re: How to earn freedom...
Post by: Pryce321 on May 16, 2009, 04:50:14 PM
Man up?
Title: Re: How to earn freedom...
Post by: Omega on May 16, 2009, 05:07:50 PM
Pilot... have you attempted to gain the trust of your parents? I mean like getting good grades, doing your chores without them asking, not staying up too late, etc.
Title: Re: How to earn freedom...
Post by: pilot on May 16, 2009, 05:19:58 PM
i have good grades, i do my chores, and i never stay up late, they just like beign jerks
Title: Re: How to earn freedom...
Post by: Omega on May 16, 2009, 05:29:39 PM
i have good grades, i do my chores, and i never stay up late, they just like beign jerks

Hmm... do you have an attitude or have a 'smart-mouth' when they ask you do something?
Title: Re: How to earn freedom...
Post by: pilot on May 16, 2009, 05:46:21 PM
no, but they say no wayy to much, i get an attitude when they start bein jerks to me like they generally are
Title: Re: How to earn freedom...
Post by: ShinamoriAoshi on May 16, 2009, 06:04:41 PM
1. Why are you crying to us, we can't do a a God damn about it.

2. Man the f*ck up.

3. You do not have a girlfriend. Enjoy your hand.
Title: Re: How to earn freedom...
Post by: Omega on May 16, 2009, 06:55:17 PM
1. Why are you crying to us, we can't do a a God damn about it.

2. Man the f*ck up.

3. You do not have a girlfriend. Enjoy your hand.

 [psyduck]

Well, cause he trying to find a way to solve or deal with his problem.
Title: Re: How to earn freedom...
Post by: ShinamoriAoshi on May 16, 2009, 07:03:20 PM
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1. Why are you crying to us, we can't do a a God damn about it.

2. Man the f*ck up.

3. You do not have a girlfriend. Enjoy your hand.
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Well, cause he trying to find a way to solve or deal with his problem.


Yeah, because you know you can just fly across the country just to tell his parents off.
Title: Re: How to earn freedom...
Post by: kinjo on May 16, 2009, 07:29:14 PM
outsmart them, find activities out of the house that make you have to be other places, lawn mower, sports, clubs
 
then not always attend those and do other stuff when they think your one place
Title: Re: How to earn freedom...
Post by: Omega on May 16, 2009, 07:32:14 PM
outsmart them, find activities out of the house that make you have to be other places, lawn mower, sports, clubs
 
then not always attend those and do other stuff when they think your one place

Hmmm... I like that... >:- D
Title: Re: How to earn freedom...
Post by: Flashwerewolf on May 16, 2009, 08:47:25 PM
just like on all those Disney channel shows! You'll never get caught or tell peolpe the wrong thing and ultimatly get in troujble at the end of the show, ooops I mean day.
Title: Re: How to earn freedom...
Post by: pilot on May 16, 2009, 11:09:46 PM
1. Why are you crying to us, we can't do a a God damn about it.

2. Man the f*ck up.

3. You do not have a girlfriend. Enjoy your hand.

i do have a girlfriend, and btw, kinjo told me to post this as a problem, and this is a big problem
Title: Re: How to earn freedom...
Post by: Pryce321 on May 17, 2009, 12:32:32 AM

i do have a girlfriend, and btw, kinjo told me to post this as a problem, and this is a big problem
Is her name Lefty or Righty?


But besides that from the sounds it your parents are just assholes...cant deal with that so just roll on through without whining and maybe your parents will let you do some stuff.
Title: Re: How to earn freedom...
Post by: Omega on May 17, 2009, 08:44:57 AM

i do have a girlfriend, and btw, kinjo told me to post this as a problem, and this is a big problem
Is her name Lefty or Righty?


But besides that from the sounds it your parents are just assholes...cant deal with that so just roll on through without whining and maybe your parents will let you do some stuff.

Sounds like a plan to me.
Title: Re: How to earn freedom...
Post by: pilot on May 17, 2009, 03:13:29 PM

i do have a girlfriend, and btw, kinjo told me to post this as a problem, and this is a big problem
Is her name Lefty or Righty?


But besides that from the sounds it your parents are just assholes...cant deal with that so just roll on through without whining and maybe your parents will let you do some stuff.

her name is lissa, and my parents are just assholes, they dont listen to anything i say, like if i give them the best reason as why i should hang out with a friend, they'd say no anyway
Title: Re: How to earn freedom...
Post by: Pryce321 on May 17, 2009, 03:45:02 PM
Well then man up and just deal with it. Since you cant solve the problem stop complaining. Complaining will just add to your frustration.


and tell Lefty I said hi.
Title: Re: How to earn freedom...
Post by: Flashwerewolf on May 17, 2009, 07:18:45 PM
Just wait till you are 18. parents are supposed to act this way, expecially in todays times when we are raised to believe in false prophets and idols.
Title: Re: How to earn freedom...
Post by: kinjo on May 17, 2009, 08:34:43 PM
 [usuck]

ive noticed alot of parents are like this

seriously parents are just people, and people are usually stupid
Title: Re: How to earn freedom...
Post by: Flashwerewolf on May 17, 2009, 09:19:47 PM
kids are just people, and people are usually stupid

Title: Re: How to earn freedom...
Post by: pilot on May 17, 2009, 10:05:58 PM
yeah thanks to all your help... *rolls eyes*
Title: Re: How to earn freedom...
Post by: Whalesdude on May 18, 2009, 12:48:18 AM
I've dealt with some whack shit with my parents, but to be honest, I just do what I want and roll with the punches. You can't be a perfect angelic son; you have to be doing something wrong. Lol. It's a two-way street with your parents. Either you're with them or you're against them. And right now, you're against them. So, instead of blaming your parents for everything and making up excuses as to why you should have things your way, talk to them about things and come up with a reasonable compromise. From the sound of it, you don't even talk to them unless you want something. I wouldn't look highly upon that if I were your parent. Lol.

But FW's right. People are usually stupid. Not everyone gets along. It's the way life works.

I get along great with my Dad, but... Never my Mum. She's a control freak, and I hate it when people control me; it's just how we're built. Lol.
Title: Re: How to earn freedom...
Post by: kinjo on May 18, 2009, 07:14:43 AM
also most kids these days want the quick and easy fix, and some things take time to achieve
 
try what whales says
Title: Re: How to earn freedom...
Post by: Pryce321 on May 18, 2009, 10:59:43 AM
I didnt expect such good advice coming from Whales. Who is usually screaming  [cen]  you to his parents.
Title: Re: How to earn freedom...
Post by: kinjo on May 18, 2009, 11:06:46 AM
but does he (whales) get to go out alot?
 
maybe the way he does it works, whatever you do your parents have to accept you
 
if they dont, they are bad parents, after all they made you and raised you
 
so it is evidently there at fault on what kind of person you become
 
they can shelter you from the internets, home school you and you could be oblivious to the real world, or they should let you roam free and learn from mistakes  [durr]
Title: Re: How to earn freedom...
Post by: Pryce321 on May 18, 2009, 11:51:52 AM
Yeah for Whales (and Whales my bad if you didnt want me to say this) the whole "made" part doesent apply.
Title: Re: How to earn freedom...
Post by: kinjo on May 18, 2009, 02:04:45 PM
atleast he eats at bk  [burgerk]
Title: Re: How to earn freedom...
Post by: Flashwerewolf on May 18, 2009, 07:27:55 PM
Well the coin toss of letting kids do what they want is that others can pay the price, reckless behavior while young without discipline leads to continued reckless behavior in the later teen years which can really ruin the beginning of your independent life.

I.E No regard for authority in middle school/highschool can lead to situations regarding tickets, and the Law.

Same goes for substance abuse, substances in controled settinsg are dandy, but in poorly planned public settings can lead to DUIs and accidents leaving you paralized and your friends dead.


But even if you arent into that, shuttling from school to home gets dull, a change of scenery keeps sanity.

Enough of my ramblings, I wonder if Pilot says he is just "hanging out" thats a key word for "trouble" in a parents ear.

"going to the park to play soccer" or "going to see a movie with my friends that we've talked all month about" provide more detail.

Parents were kids too, and they actually don't forget much about it.
Title: Re: How to earn freedom...
Post by: Whalesdude on May 18, 2009, 10:52:33 PM
Yeah, I'm adopted. Doesn't really matter. I never cared much. Sure, it distances me from my family a bit (mentally) because I feel as though I'm not really part of the family, but that doesn't stop me from loving my family. Though, my parents could use a little work... I think they'll be alright once I'm actually out of the house. Lol.

I get to go out and do pretty much whatever I want. I don't hide things from my parents; I just tell them, "I'm going out," and I go. Sometimes they stop me and ask where I'm going, but I give them a brief idea of what I'm doing, like "I'm going to a Show with Hayley, Emily and Amber," or "I'm going down to the Exxon to grab some food." Sure, I can lie, but why? I hardly go anywhere anyways.

I think they realize that I'm already quite mature, to the point where I finally have to start making decisions for myself, but at the same time, they still want to make sure I 'turn out okay'. I think that's garbage, and I know it's harsh but it's simply because I don't really care about what they want me to be. I'll be who I'll be, and that's just how it is. I don't even know where I'll go in life. Then again, who does? They just want me to turn out 'right' by their standards, as well as society's. I respect that, but at the same time, I have to be true to myself and do what I feel is right sometimes. It's my life, not theirs. They're reaching the end of the road as far as being able to control major aspects of my life, and it's scary to them. That's how it goes with parents.

That's my 0.02$. The best thing you can do is just be all like, "WHATEVAH. ಠ_ಠ" in your head, and do what you're supposed to do. At least your parents care enough about you to not let you go and do whatever you want.
Title: Re: How to earn freedom...
Post by: Flashwerewolf on May 18, 2009, 11:10:34 PM
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I don't really care about what they want me to be. I'll be who I'll be, and that's just how it is. I don't even know where I'll go in life. Then again, who does? They just want me to turn out 'right' by their standards, as well as society's. I respect that, but at the same time, I have to be true to myself and do what I feel is right sometimes.

Well, there are paths out there that they are aware of (and possibly followed) that they realized were false and do not want you to waste time out of your life walking those paths.

Like becoming a Gangsta Rapper.

I've learned of a few paths myself from spending time with very different people of ages that range a year to two decades lol
Title: Re: How to earn freedom...
Post by: black death on May 19, 2009, 12:26:30 AM
Pilot you are also only 14. You are still in the stage where you DO actually need to be told what you can and cannot do. You may think that's bullshit now, but one day you will realize that it was important for them to do that. give it a couple years. VERY SOON you will start to get some respect and the ability to go places without a 2 hour conversation about it.
Title: Re: How to earn freedom...
Post by: Whalesdude on May 20, 2009, 01:02:00 PM
I'm a gangta rappa.

Yeah... Yeah, aight...

Little easy on the beat, cuz..

Yeah, this what I'm talkin' 'bout...

Yo it's Pilot
He's hidin' in ft. Faraggut
Ready for his parents rage
They 'finna put his ass in a cage
He on the run
With his gun
Cappin' some zombies and rats
They droppin' just like my raps
Shadowmere outside neighin'
That nigga Pilot prayin'
Cause he wanna chill with his homies, take a hit
But his folks ain't gonna take his shit
He just gotta roll
Take the horse for a stroll
Drop some highwaymen and bandits
Then stop in Denny's for some mad grits
We in the south side, nigga
Grits is what we do, nigga
Yeah this ain't what you use to; not the same deal
We ain't in New York, this is South-Side Cyrodil
Pilot ain't takin' this shit from no thugs
Them Daedroth he runs with be up in his mug
He chops 'em down, watches 'em fall
'Finna beat in their heads with a sock and poolball
But STOP RIGHT THERE CRIMINAL SCUM
Said the Imp. 5-0, and put this nigga on the run
Pilot be a real ghetto boy; ain't got a 1000 gold
All he got's that glock and that attitude he hold
I seen him takin' out them Oblivion Gates
Get up to the tower; Hit the stone with his Bapes
So if you see my boy ridin' through Skingrad
Drop this nigga a line and say, "Mah bad"
'Cause you prolly 'finna get in his way
He's a busy dude; but he can't get out anyway
'Cause his parents ain't real and fresh
Like my raps, Kanye West, or FW's breasts
If you don't take my advice and move out the way, wonderful person
He'll whip out his Akaviri Katana with +10 Lightning Damage
And damn nigga, I seen this shit befo'
[cen]  with this guy, you be on the flo'
Somewhere way past the game limits
Like out in the Morrowind projects
Squirmin' like you trippin' off some of that dank Skooma
Or them crazy them LOL Pills from my brotha Omega
But I ain't seen none of you take Daedroths down
This nigga be shootin' switches; Crocs droppin' all around
That's right, I said it; they be huge bipedal crocs
But they ain't nothin to a Lightning Sword and a 40 Cal Glock
Pilot runnin' all around, he ain't no house nigga locked up
Like what he gonna be when his parents wise up
Damn, these Imperial Guard ain't got no skills
Not like my boy here, he's the damn real deals
His girlfriend givin' him jobs, this nigga ain't happy
Oh wait man, that's just Lady Gray
But y'all heard it before, and now I'm sayin' again
This is PilotofDoom motha[cen] a, don't you ever forget it

THIS IS 2009... EAST COAST...
B-BOY SKOOMA...
WE WILL BE THERE..
SPEECHCRAFTIN'...
Title: Re: How to earn freedom...
Post by: Pryce321 on May 20, 2009, 02:30:32 PM
Aww shit my homie Whales be up in the bit droppin dem  ryhmes like he drops dem Benjamins on da table.
Title: Re: How to earn freedom...
Post by: Flashwerewolf on May 20, 2009, 09:45:40 PM
flap jacks [pico]
Title: Re: How to earn freedom...
Post by: tkoold on May 21, 2009, 12:25:38 PM
somehoe people being stupid has not caused us to destroy the world or be like lemmings yet.. [zomgnoes]
Title: Re: How to earn freedom...
Post by: Whalesdude on May 26, 2009, 04:44:38 PM
"Yet", tkoold. Yet.

For now, all I can do is write more raps and post on the 4M.
Title: Re: How to earn freedom...
Post by: pilot on May 28, 2009, 08:42:05 PM
ok, well, you guys dont seem to get it, i dont go out and destroy stuff..

i just wanna hang with my friends without my mom following me, or hang out with my girlfriend without my mom right next to me..