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Title: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: kinjo on October 03, 2010, 08:26:01 AM
Student commits suicide after secret webcast

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A freshman at Rutgers University killed himself after his roommate allegedly posted on the Internet secretly taped footage of him having a sexual encounter in his dorm room, authorities and the victim's family said Wednesday.

Through an attorney, the family of Tyler Clementi issued a statement confirming that the 18-year-old had ended his life last week by jumping off the George Washington Bridge and said it is "cooperating fully with the ongoing criminal investigations."


Tyler Clementi is believed to have jumped to his death from the George Washington Bridge.

Dharun Ravi, Mr. Clementi's roommate at Rutgers, and another student, Molly Wei, both 18 years old, are charged with invasion of privacy for using a webcam to transmit the secretly record footage on Sept. 19, Middlesex County officials said.

Mr. Ravi was charged with two additional counts of invasion of privacy for attempting to use the camera to view and transmit another encounter involving the same student two days later, Middlesex County Prosecutor Bruce Kaplan said in a statement.

Lawyers for Mr. Ravi and Ms. Wei did not return phone calls seeking comment and the two students did not respond to email messages sent on Wednesday. Ms. Wei was released on her own recognizance after she turned herself into Rutgers Police on Monday. Mr. Ravi was released on $25,000 bail on Tuesday after surrendering to police.

Both are charged with crimes that carry prison sentences of up to five years if they are convicted, prosecutors said. Under New Jersey law, it is a fourth-degree crime to collect or view images of someone nude or engaged in sexual contact without their consent, prosecutors said. It is a third-degree crime to distribute those images, prosecutors said.



On Sept. 22, a wallet containing Mr. Clementi's driver's license and Rutgers University identification card was found on the George Washington Bridge after two witnesses reporting seeing a young man jump from the span at about 9 p.m., a law-enforcement official with knowledge of the case said. No body has yet been recovered, the official said.

Officials with the Middlesex County prosecutor's office declined to comment on Mr. Clementi's death because he hasn't been publicly identified as the victim of the illegal taping at Rutgers University.

In its statement, Mr. Clementi's family described the graduate of Ridgewood High School in Ridgewood, N.J., as "a fine young man and a distinguished musician." The statement, released by attorney Paul Mainardi, said the family "is heartbroken beyond words."

Mr. Clementi played the violin, the Associated Press reported. "He was a terrific musician, and a very promising, hardworking young man," Ed Schmiedecke, a former music director at Ridgewood High School, told the AP.


"Our thoughts and prayers are with the family right now," said the superintendent of the Ridgewood Public Schools, Dr. Daniel Fishbein, who sent out notices late last week informing students that Mr. Clementi was missing and offering grief counseling.

Mr. Ravi allegedly used the online program iChat to post the video on the Internet, and also broadcast a message about the posting on his Twitter feed, which has since been taken down.

Citing privacy concerns, a spokeswoman for Rutgers University would not comment on the cases involving Mr. Ravi and Ms. Wei, but said in a statement that the school "takes these matters seriously."

A New Jersey gay-rights group, Garden State Equality, said it considers Mr. Clementi's death a hate crime.

"We are heartbroken over the tragic loss of a young man who, by all accounts, was brilliant, talented and kind," the group's chairman, Steven Goldstein, said in a statement. "And we are sickened that anyone in our society, such as the students allegedly responsible for making the surreptitious video, might consider destroying others' lives as a sport."

They should get a lot of time in jail. Hopefully when this Dharun Ravi is in jail, he will drop the soap, and be violated.
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: Wesker on October 03, 2010, 08:51:57 PM
The shit people pull. Just awful.
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Post by: Flashwerewolf on October 03, 2010, 09:42:52 PM
woah no body has been found?! some people think its a hate crime?! This is getting bonkers.
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: kinjo on October 04, 2010, 07:51:53 AM
I always think of hate crimes, as jealous crimes.
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: Flashwerewolf on October 04, 2010, 08:39:05 AM
well from what the article suggested, the victim was a homosexual who was probably guilt ridden from embarassment.
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: kinjo on October 04, 2010, 08:43:50 AM
which is weird because it's 2010, not 1990

homosexuality is more open than ever... he should of just beat the shit out of them

poor kid
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: Flashwerewolf on October 04, 2010, 08:58:42 AM
seemed like a prank gone awry! I can see the humor of secretly filming a buddy gettin it on, incase he has some funny thing he does, or just weeps as he does the hanky panky, but then BOOM ITS ANOTHER GUY! And its all being streamed and too late to stop, both parties caught off guard.
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: kinjo on October 04, 2010, 09:49:51 AM
that's the problem with today, everyone wants to make a video and pop it on youtube

where has the intelligence gone!
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: Adelaide on October 04, 2010, 03:20:45 PM
o.o that is so horrible... why is there no happy news any more :<
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: kinjo on October 04, 2010, 05:16:00 PM
it has been unhappy news since i can remember watching news

nobody cares about good news, people want to see bad news to make their lives seem more happy

the media hasn't changed
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: Adelaide on October 04, 2010, 08:52:47 PM
C: oh no i mean, when i was a kid i used to watch this nick hosted news channel for kids that had real news but it was always good news C:
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: Flashwerewolf on October 04, 2010, 11:34:33 PM
only good news it seems now is techy news
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: Adelaide on October 05, 2010, 01:55:56 AM
C: I'll make some good news.. lessee har

C: Addy luffles 4Mers
Kinjo and Bloo had been supah dupah hard workers wiff the game-age :D
Flash ish mod by day killer by night C: (Thats good news right? :D)
Rawry's computer functions again :3
Soley Poley... C: is chill as a dollar bill but needs to venture outta RP section
TK... o.o got drunk with some girls? Yay him?
Capn Llama :3 I'ma try and git em to post moar
and :D I'm a bunny and thats always gewd news~!

And this has been Addy with the news, signing off of HHJJ News; where the new is always happy and we have this song about whale as our theme song:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tP2ph6GwW54
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: kinjo on October 05, 2010, 07:11:27 AM
i remember buying the Ren & Stimpy cassette when i was really young just to get that song

WOW! that dates me
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: Flashwerewolf on October 05, 2010, 08:03:08 AM
tkoold dates you as well! YOU TWO-TIMER!!!
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: kinjo on October 05, 2010, 08:08:26 AM
tkoold dates nobody!!!!! muhahahahahhaahhaha

lol, we are off topic big time
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: Adelaide on October 05, 2010, 11:10:10 PM
C: yeah we are <3
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: kinjo on October 06, 2010, 06:19:10 AM
the news is still buzzing about this, and using it to fight for gay rights

i didn't know in most states you can loose your job for being gay, thats just wrong
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: Adelaide on October 06, 2010, 05:41:37 PM
oh yesh :C being gay isnt AS accepted as people think it is just yet
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: kinjo on October 06, 2010, 07:29:03 PM
in minnesota it was
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: Adelaide on October 07, 2010, 03:26:23 PM
Theres a faceboook status going around apparently:

"A 13 yr old boy in Texas shot himself in the head after years of bullying & torment for being gay. Seth Walsh, also 13, hung himself from a backyard tree. Tyler Clementi 18, a freshman at Rutgers, jumped off the GW Bridge after his roommate broadcast a video of Tyler with another guy. TODAY, I STAND UP TO THOSE BULLIES ...in their honor. If you care to STAND UP with me, please Post this as your status."
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: kinjo on October 07, 2010, 07:29:17 PM
apparently this month a few more suicides because of bullying, why is americans doing this?

the media is 30% gay, you would think people would be more open now adays
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: Kedzor on October 08, 2010, 05:29:51 PM
flower powers evreywhere, apparently
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: Flashwerewolf on October 08, 2010, 06:13:15 PM
apparently this month a few more suicides because of bullying, why is americans doing this?

the media is 30% gay, you would think people would be more open now adays

Cause generation ME is in full swing, people can't handle the criticism of others, it shatters their minds and they can't cope.
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: kinjo on October 09, 2010, 07:14:30 AM
//_-

such a selfish generation
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: Malcom666 on October 11, 2010, 09:03:44 AM
 can see the humor of secretly filming a buddy gettin it on, incase he has some funny thing he does, or just weeps as he does the hanky panky.......
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: Flashwerewolf on October 11, 2010, 02:36:36 PM
yeah, but when it turns out its him and another dude, the situation gets ridiculous!
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: Adelaide on October 11, 2010, 05:06:35 PM
I think its really messed up to invade someones personal life like that and why on earth would you want to see your friend naked and getting it on
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: kinjo on October 12, 2010, 06:10:31 AM
he is probably secretly gay and wanted to watch, like most homophobes
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: Flashwerewolf on October 13, 2010, 06:53:28 PM
I doubt that most homophones are gay themselves, it doesn't make any sense, other than to bad mouth homophones.
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: Adelaide on October 13, 2010, 10:10:55 PM
CARAT CARET AND CARROT :D HOMOPHONES
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: tkoold on October 13, 2010, 10:15:16 PM
NY people are Stupid... so are people who kill themselves for an Escape... they have no excuse they just basically told the world i have no respect for myself and whatever im dealing with cant deal with anymore.. Very Calas.. people can over come everything.. it is a crime to give up on your life.
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: Adelaide on October 13, 2010, 10:35:50 PM
Wow TK, way to be stereotypical
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: kinjo on October 14, 2010, 08:17:22 AM
Wow TK, way to be stereotypical

i actually agree with him, killing yourself is stupid and is a crime

they say you end up working for eternity in the afterlife if you kill yourself

hopefully cleaning toilets, no matter what your life experiences are

you can always run away and try again, talk to new people, change your name, live on a beach, pan handle, etc, etc

i knew people who lived under a bridge and they were the most strong willed people i ever met

really gave me a different view on life, and i would never kill myself no matter how hard my life gets

it is sad that people do kill themselves, but it is the cowards way out, we were all given the gift of life why waste it
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: tkoold on October 14, 2010, 10:32:11 PM
Yeah.. i honestly know a person who Killed Himself, and he didnt even have a reason close to the guy in the article.. its a really horrible thing to do, and "cody halterman" had over 1000 People he personally knew of friends and family and co workers that all attended his funeral, and wondered why.. Why did he take his life, what could have been so bad? Over 1000 people.. and over 3000 people conveying their condolances on his facebook page.. I dont know if i even would have 100 people if i died, no matter how i died.
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: kinjo on October 15, 2010, 10:42:18 AM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xU68TLWikhM

music is an escape they should of turned too
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: Adelaide on October 15, 2010, 04:09:12 PM
NY people are Stupid...

I actually just meant that as far as stereotypes go. o.o I know a lot of intelligent people from NY, not to mention some of the most credible universities are located there and theres a lot of entrepreneurs with good heads on their shoulders.

Ugh lately 4M has had its ways of insulting or bothering me... I'm considering taking a break from it.
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: kinjo on October 15, 2010, 08:56:17 PM
curse you tkoold and making addy want a break!

ill stop making bad topics like this, happy news time!
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: Adelaide on October 15, 2010, 09:42:03 PM
C: Teehee, its alright I just hate when people get judgmental like that because they really can't understand something they've never experienced, I guess I just got a bit high strung C: I'm sorry about that
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: tkoold on October 16, 2010, 02:54:49 AM
Stop over reacting Addy, Maybe i Typed a Sentance because i didnt want to type a Page that no one would read, and What on earth could i possibly type with one sentance that would be as Broad and general as you want it to be?? im not as dumb or ignorant as you want to interpret me as, and as for not experienced!?

dude i just told you somthing horrible that ive experienced, have you experienced someone who you knew for atleast 2 years that you thought was cool, had a life, was just beginning to live had as much going for him as any person could want, and everything seemed fine even to his closest friends and family then one day he leaves a mysterious note that sais some crazy things but still doesent do justice to any reason he would hang himself in his own bedroom, he worked the day prior to the night he did it, everyone who was around saw nothing unusual and he was laughing talking casual in break.. gave no clue... and no one could know to help him and somehow he could turn to no one for anything he needed? and He literatly had thousands of people Well known through school friends and family and work attend his funeral and 10's of thousands know Write and make dedicated pages of the sadness asking why sending condolences to his brother and everything.

to this day my fellow co workers somtimes write statuses on facebook related to cody, and One co worker told me Every time  a girl stares at me it was because of cody, its a funny joke.. but in his own way he rooted for me to have a gf.. i cannot state enough, of anyone who killed them self this man had beyond no reason too.. and it left hundreds of people wondering Why? what on earth was he going through in the moment.. and why could we not help him? this was a 20 yr old man, just about to start his 2nd year of college had tons of friends, working as hard and good as anyone at rainbow, and liked talking to me about xbox games Daily... cody halterman left the Town of Cottage grove Minnesota Devestated...
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: Adelaide on October 16, 2010, 12:57:05 PM
I'm not going to respond that that because I wrote a page myself that i edited out which is why i apologized; but you referred to suicidal people as stupid and it made me mad. How can you insult the deceased like that? How can you judge them if you weren't in their own situation.
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: kinjo on October 16, 2010, 08:00:29 PM
it is hard to read what tkoold writes as serious when he spells so bad

sentance, really tkoold? proof the public school system is flawed
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: Adelaide on October 17, 2010, 03:48:13 PM
My sentences are fine and I'm from public school. C: I think it's proof of students who attend those schools being less-than-ambitious and not taking learned concepts with them or even attempting to retain the information given.
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: tkoold on October 18, 2010, 02:10:50 AM
well i havent been to school in 10+ years maybe im just forgetfull
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: Adelaide on October 18, 2010, 03:26:47 AM
forgetful* :D
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: kinjo on October 19, 2010, 07:13:35 AM
hey, it was just a slip of an L

i saw on Nickelodeon commercials about bullying

those awful commercials where these 3 guys talk about how its bad, makes me want to bully them

complete dorks
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: Adelaide on October 19, 2010, 07:58:45 AM
XD you're so mean
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: kinjo on October 19, 2010, 08:03:44 AM
you should of seen this commercial
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Post by: Flashwerewolf on October 19, 2010, 08:53:51 AM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U61UCcHoDV0
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: kinjo on October 19, 2010, 02:50:55 PM
nope, it was 3 college long haired emos, talking like BRO, DUDE

as if it was the 80s all over again
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: Adelaide on October 19, 2010, 10:40:53 PM
o.o we all use bro and dude as if it were the 80s again
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Post by: Flashwerewolf on October 20, 2010, 12:51:56 AM
yeah, bro
Title: Re: Student commits suicide after secret webcast
Post by: kinjo on October 20, 2010, 09:09:15 PM
dude....