If I had to choose it would be parties but ;P none of my friends have my beliefs, I had a few even asking me if they could bring drugs/booze to MY OWN party (to which i said >:0 No!)
And with clubs, :3 I'm going to one of them under 21 clubs with Rachel soon so I'll give you an opinion of that when I do it (although its a goth club, so I'll feel more like I'm going to a costume party of strangers)...