like Addy said, you just need to work on how you speak. My uncle was a depressed man after his wife left him and he wonderful personed and moaned for years, until he finally met a woman that makes him happy now. I am certain that you will find a good girl in due time, tkoold, but don't do it on the internet. The reason ppl say "you're a creep" or some such is because of the way you talked to Addy on AIM. The majority of us know about it and it's, to say the least, creepy and far from right. Go to singles meets or, as a last resort, Sexaholics Anonymous!