It's more of sarcasm because when you guys mess up we expect you to realize it an be like "Oh shiiiii-" :P We also know that you are paying attention when you realize we are upset/uncomfortable without us needing to announce it, and if we tell you guys what's wrong, then you don't have to try and figure it out yourself. Take it as a compliment! :D We don't think you're mindless zombies that need to be fed information. :> It's all part of being a brain ninja.