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Title: Why do you act the way you do? The most important factor to your personality is?
Post by: kinjo on February 07, 2010, 11:27:46 AM
Do you know why you act the way you do?
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Post by: Adelaide on February 07, 2010, 06:19:11 PM
Uhmm o.o

All personalities are built on by previous experiences.

I really can't say why I act the way I do, besides I have a lot of family obligations.

I have to do most of the raising of my little brother, cook, and I do a lot of cleaning. If I don't do these things, no one else will usually.

I mean... my dad sucks at fathering and my mom works late.

That's where a lot of my responsibility comes from.

The rest of it..... no idea =D

I just like being a nice approachable person! ^.^
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Post by: Flashwerewolf on February 08, 2010, 03:34:14 AM
cuz I smoke tha crack pipe! [cmon2]
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Post by: tkoold on February 09, 2010, 06:30:37 AM
Ive played Video games since i was 2 and a half, from first grade through 4th grade all my friends were girls and we would play tag every day during recess and i would always be "it" except on rare occasions and then within minutes i would be it again the 12 girls i was friends with wouldnt really chase eachother and id have to run forever to avoid being it [nyoro~n] .. regardles i was really friends with them and hangout at their house whatever and talk every day with them..
after 4th grade i met a Great friend who im still in contact with and it further endevored my Skills in computers and video gameing..
 
in other crazier stories ill tell you that my dad is a sucessfull well to do guy that can Over come any challenges He needs to for him and his Family to survive, and my mom is a Person always wrought with failure falling short relying on help from others and had only 2 years in her life were she had a Reasonable sustainable job.. and im a perfect combination of the two
 
I work at a crazy job that pays me a better than average 14$ an hour working at a grocery store Bagging groceries and grabbing carts it pays just enough for me to get by with my mistakes but never enough to gain any ground get ahead and do anything meaning full or being capable of living on my own and being my own sucess..my life is riddled with being better than average but never breaking through i always fall short on somthing and enter mediocrity..
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Post by: Adelaide on February 09, 2010, 04:36:54 PM
And that's Tkoold's life in a nutshell, with a huge time gap in the middle =D
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Post by: Shashuneko on February 09, 2010, 04:43:35 PM
I was born playing video games on Nintendo and Atari that my parents already owned, and I watched only anime from ages 5 to 10. Nuff said.
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Post by: black death on February 09, 2010, 04:48:49 PM
Wait, so tkoold is like he is because he was always "it" when he played tag with his friends who were girls?
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Post by: Flashwerewolf on February 09, 2010, 05:10:57 PM
kootie killer! [nyoro~n]
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Post by: tkoold on February 10, 2010, 01:22:29 AM
do you think some psycological break through can be made? [lchair]
 
i cant empasize enough i believe im more who i am because of who my parents are and that also throughout my life through school and many things in between ive been mentaly defeated by my failed attempts to be my own sucessfull person, there is nothing more painfull in life than than your best attempts to obtain the best things, the best grades the best jobs, the best oporitunitys for yourself, But when you put your 110% and what you have to show for it garners somthing valued less than 80% of value and you know you have nothing more you could do nothing more you could have done nothing more you could of privided that thats all your life has and thats all your abilty or talent privides and youve givin absolutly every breath or neron thought of your mind to accomplesh your goals and you fail and to an extent that it decapitates your ability to obtain a life most other people have you are crushed and dont know how to build yourself again..
 
Imagine if its happened throughout your life about 6 times from age 10 on and that after age 22 problems implicating where i live the stability of it and the causings of me falling more and more in debt with less answers of how to dig myself out again...
 
Its created automatic naunces in myself where i at times am depressed needlessy and where i demean myself if only to laugh at problems instead of crying or worying about them because they have been bad and whatever i do is to the best of my ability and im at an end where im tired of being crushed i know what im capable of and what im not im tired of being crushed so i creat nuances in my personality to keep myself from being crushed.. probably too much cuz it limits any oporitunity to gain anything anymore its so deep i donno where to begin to get past and grab life by the horns again and do what im supposed to do.. whatever god intends
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Post by: ShinamoriAoshi on February 10, 2010, 01:42:06 AM
Lolwat.

My english teacher just made his classes write exactly about this not too long ago.
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Post by: Wesker on February 10, 2010, 08:47:40 AM
Me...I'm the way I am because I chose not to play sports and just flower power around with my brother my entire childhood, and take chances. I'm almost nothing like my folks, which explains why my dad shakes his head every now and again and jokingly says "I swear you're the mailman's kid."
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Post by: Adelaide on February 10, 2010, 03:11:47 PM
do you think some psycological break through can be made? [lchair]
 
i cant empasize enough i believe im more who i am because of who my parents are and that also throughout my life through school and many things in between ive been mentaly defeated by my failed attempts to be my own sucessfull person, there is nothing more painfull in life than than your best attempts to obtain the best things, the best grades the best jobs, the best oporitunitys for yourself, But when you put your 110% and what you have to show for it garners somthing valued less than 80% of value and you know you have nothing more you could do nothing more you could have done nothing more you could of privided that thats all your life has and thats all your abilty or talent privides and youve givin absolutly every breath or neron thought of your mind to accomplesh your goals and you fail and to an extent that it decapitates your ability to obtain a life most other people have you are crushed and dont know how to build yourself again..
 
Imagine if its happened throughout your life about 6 times from age 10 on and that after age 22 problems implicating where i live the stability of it and the causings of me falling more and more in debt with less answers of how to dig myself out again...
 
Its created automatic naunces in myself where i at times am depressed needlessy and where i demean myself if only to laugh at problems instead of crying or worying about them because they have been bad and whatever i do is to the best of my ability and im at an end where im tired of being crushed i know what im capable of and what im not im tired of being crushed so i creat nuances in my personality to keep myself from being crushed.. probably too much cuz it limits any oporitunity to gain anything anymore its so deep i donno where to begin to get past and grab life by the horns again and do what im supposed to do.. whatever god intends

I'm sure you didnt give your 110% because people who do that do a lot. Look at Nestec: he is never on the 4M but thats because he is giving his 110%. He does all his homework, studies, spends hours on this stuff, he joined a lot of clubs and activities, joined and became president of student council, and now he has a full scholarship to go to school. He gave his all, and walked out with something to prove it.

Did you join a lot of clubs? Did you ALWAYS do your homework, no matter what excuse you could have used? Did you constantly study? Its easy to claim you did all that you could, but that doesnt make it true.

Me...I'm the way I am because I chose not to play sports and just flower power around with my brother my entire childhood, and take chances. I'm almost nothing like my folks, which explains why my dad shakes his head every now and again and jokingly says "I swear you're the mailman's kid."

=D I'm called the milk man's child! *high five!*
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Post by: Flashwerewolf on February 10, 2010, 07:22:18 PM
I get my goofiness from my dad, and my insight from my mom. They've been divorced for a long time, and never talk/see each other so when I display qualities from the other party, they get a real kick out of it.
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Post by: Adelaide on February 10, 2010, 09:06:45 PM
=3 We do pick up a lot of habits from our parents... Or I do from my mom... I am incredibly detached from my father.. =D Be me and my mommy have bonding time all the time! =D
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Post by: Wesker on February 10, 2010, 09:37:02 PM
finally getting along with your mom, eh, addy?
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Post by: Adelaide on February 10, 2010, 09:47:56 PM
Me and my mom have always got along, we just share different views in based upon her alcoholism
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Post by: Wesker on February 10, 2010, 10:13:43 PM
Oh.
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Post by: Adelaide on February 11, 2010, 05:17:43 AM
Yeah; we are frrrrieenndddsss =3

(I'm her favorite but dont tell my siblings ;3)
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Post by: kinjo on February 12, 2010, 11:18:12 AM
i get my independence from my mom, my strive to succeed is from her

but after she passed away my life went crazy, almost married a psychotic stripper, my life was spiraling downwards

but thanks to my family & friends, including tkoold & fw my life always seemed to have purpose

now i have a beautiful girlfriend, live in beautiful florida and living my dream
but my dream includes stress and frustration, so that is how i am feeling most of the time (and take it out on others, sadly)

i love bringing drawings to life, just its tough learning how to do it right, soon my stress will go away once i am a master animator and ill be a nice guy to be around again!!

and an explanation on how i think now, i examine everything, everyone, every second. i stay in this mode because it is helping me get better at animating/drawing, finding flaws, thinking of ways to improve, or starting over completely, most animators of the past have been not to fun to be around because of this

tho i have always been crazy & annoying, these are good traits for an animator to have  [zomgnoes]
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Post by: Adelaide on February 12, 2010, 12:18:38 PM
Annoying isnt. :3

Teehee ^.^ You are okay to be around sometimes, other times you are grumpy
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Post by: kinjo on February 12, 2010, 12:21:20 PM
if im drawing, your best bet would be to stay away!  [neko04]
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Post by: Adelaide on February 12, 2010, 12:28:00 PM
Well you talk to me! I dont talk to you because I never know when is a good time...
Title: Re: Why do you act the way you do? The most important factor to your personality is?
Post by: kinjo on February 12, 2010, 01:12:53 PM
ask me what im doing, i am sure by the 4th thing i say you can tell my current mood
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Post by: Adelaide on February 12, 2010, 01:55:01 PM
Oh otay :3 thanks for the tip
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Post by: tkoold on February 16, 2010, 06:25:47 AM
lol usualy by the 5th thing he sais im conpletly confused :P
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Post by: Adelaide on February 16, 2010, 03:06:33 PM
I doesnt talk to me about anything confusing

;P
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Post by: kinjo on February 16, 2010, 03:41:20 PM
I doesnt talk to me about anything confusing

;P

You don't talk to yourself about anything confusing?
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Post by: Adelaide on February 16, 2010, 09:56:30 PM
o.o dewd.. i just confused myself
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Post by: tkoold on February 18, 2010, 02:09:03 PM
that be one confused bunny over there
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Post by: kinjo on February 18, 2010, 03:45:01 PM
 [cmon2]  your welcome
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Post by: Adelaide on February 18, 2010, 06:12:37 PM
thanks! =D
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Post by: TwitchLord on February 20, 2010, 01:43:07 PM
im the way i am i think because of my father mostly even though i would only see him a month out of every year for most of my life because i look and act like from what my mom says but i think i also take from my mom because were both really forgetful with things and were pretty tuff although my shyness comes from me because i went introvert in the 6th grade because i got tired of talking to everyone everyday and then it just so appened to make me shy lol it sux
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Post by: Adelaide on February 20, 2010, 08:24:31 PM
=D ish otay to be shy
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Post by: tkoold on February 21, 2010, 04:20:36 AM
is it ok to be the way i am adelaide?
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Post by: Flashwerewolf on February 21, 2010, 07:52:23 AM
*tough [cmon2]
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Post by: Adelaide on February 21, 2010, 11:57:28 AM
@Tkoold
Recently, yes it has been okay to be you.

@FW
Whose post were you correcting o.O
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Post by: Flashwerewolf on February 21, 2010, 11:58:15 AM
Animebone  [cmon2]
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Post by: Adelaide on February 21, 2010, 12:08:42 PM
I thought he misspelled it on purpose xD
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Post by: Spenner on February 21, 2010, 10:22:02 PM
I don't act, I adapt and breathe coexistent to whatever may lurk in my surroundings. I'm rarely the same person twice, except that I am the same secluded introverted individual that doesn't like to talk, that admires simplicity and beauty, and is regularly too imprisoned by his own mind to speak of it.

The most important aspect of my personality is that it is adaptive, and that I can change it however I need it to, if I can summon the self motivation to. Lately in this year I've been slightly more one dimensional in that I crave beauty, whether that be metaphoric or literal, or just something of my own perceptive interpretations.
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Post by: Adelaide on February 21, 2010, 10:34:09 PM
wow o.o thats deep :3

I liked it o.o

=D Seems like a good way to be
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