I agree with you.
Flash is more involved with the 4Mers it seems, kinda coddles us a little more, like a mother would, but he can be strict if he knows he has to.
Kinjo does his own thing, but does sorta involve himself, and he has some killer advice to give when you need it, but he is more assertive and what he says goes.
Flash is the mommy.
Kinjo is the daddy.
In my opinion.